Relationship in Crisis? Read This First.
If right now feels like it might break you, you’re not alone..
And If you’ve found yourself here, I’m guessing something big has happened?
A fight that felt like it went too far.
The shock of a betrayal.
Words you can’t take back.
Or just a heavy silence that feels impossible to bear.
Right now, you might feel shaky, heartbroken, angry, or numb.
You might be wondering if you can come back from this.
Please know: many couples have stood exactly where you are now and found a way forward. Sometimes that path is together, sometimes it isn’t, but right now is not the time to decide.
If this is where you are, there are a few steps I gently suggest you follow:
Step 1 – Press Pause
Again - you don’t have to fix it right now.
Your nervous system is in overdrive, and big decisions made in this state are rarely the right ones.
Step 2 – Take Gentle Space
Step away from the argument for now. This could mean separate rooms, a walk, or quiet time. This isn’t abandoning your partner. It’s preventing further hurt.
Step 3 – Soothe Your Body
Put your feet flat on the floor.
Notice: 5 things you see, 4 you touch, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste.
Drink water, wrap up in a blanket, or take a warm shower.
Your body needs to know: We are safe right now.
Step 4 – Let the Thoughts Out
Write down what you’re feeling (not what you’re going to do).
And this is just for you — not for sending, not for winning the fight, it’s just to help clear the storm from your head.
What Happens Next?
Tomorrow will still be tender, but it will be clearer.
With support, you can look at what’s happened from a calmer place.
For now:
You are allowed to be hurt.
You are allowed to need space.
You are allowed to not have the answers.
You don’t have to fix everything. You just have to make it through this moment without burning it down.
I work with couples who are tired, but not done. Couples who’ve been through deep hurt and still want to understand each other, rebuild trust, and feel safe together again.
If you’re ready, you can Book a couples session here →] or text me on 0422 322 828 to find out my next available appointment.
Whatever has happened, it does not have to define your future.
You can pause. You can breathe.
You can take the next step when you’re ready, and you don’t have to take it alone.
